The beauty of writing a wish list like this or this is that I can actually make it happen. I can buy the perfect pair of brogues, a leather satchel or a new throw for my favourite armchair; these wishes are all possible (when funds permit). I can go travelling, I can change my career, and make a family, made up of pets, friends or children if I fancy. Yes, albeit a little more slowly, but they are achievable. I can…